LOQ: What three issues have engaged developmental psychologists?
Developmental psychology examines our physical, cognitive, and social development across the life span, with a focus on three major issues:
Nature and nurture: How does our genetic inheritance (our nature) interact with our experiences (our nurture) to influence our development?
Continuity and stages: What parts of development are gradual and continuous, like riding an escalator? What parts change abruptly in separate stages, like climbing rungs on a ladder?
Stability and change: Which of our traits persist through life? How do we change as we age?
Developmental Psychology: a branch of psychology that studies physical, cognitive, and social change throughout the life span.
Continuity and Stages
Experience and learning typically develop as a slow, continuous shaping process.
various stages may be quick or slow
everyone passes through the stages in the same order.
Stability and Change
We experience both stability and change. Some of our characteristics, such as temperament, are very stable
We cannot predict all aspects of our future selves based on our early life
social attitudes, for example, are much less stable than our temperament
Life requires both stability and change.
Stability provides our identity, enabling us to depend on others and on ourselves.
Potential for change gives us our hope for a brighter future, allowing us to adapt and grow with experience.
Prenatal Development and the Newborn
LOQ: What is the course of prenatal development, and how do teratogens affect that development?
Conception
The process started inside your grandmother—as an egg formed inside a developing female inside of her. (Your mother was born with all the immature eggs she would ever have.)
Your father begins producing sperm cells nonstop at puberty
Prenatal Development
Fewer than ½ of the zygotes concieved make it past 2 weeks
10 days after conception, the zygote attaches to the mother’s uterine wall starting the pregnacy term
9 weeks after conception the embryo starts showing human like features
Two months before birth, fetuses demonstrate learning in other ways, as when they adapt to a vibrating
Learning of language begins in the womb
Fetus’ prefer hearing their mother’s language
Teratogens, agents such as viruses and drugs, can damage an embryo or fetus.
one reason pregnant women are advised not to smoke or to drink alcohol.
Light drinking or even ocassional binge drinking can affect the fetus’s development
This damage may occour because alcohol has an epigentic effect
Smoking also can be an epigenetic effect cuasing developmental problems
Zygote: the fertilized egg; it enters a 2-week period of rapid cell division and develops into an embryo
Embryo: the developing human organism from about 2 weeks after fertilization through the second month.
Fetus: the developing human organism from 9 weeks after conception to birth.
Teratogens: (literally, “monster makers”) agents, such as chemicals and viruses, that can reach the embryo or fetus during prenatal development and cause harm.
Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS):physical and cognitive abnormalities in children caused by a pregnant woman’s heavy drinking. In severe cases, signs include a small, out-of-proportion head and abnormal facial features.
The Competent Newborn
LOQ: What are some newborn abilities, and how do researchers explore infants’ mental abilities?
Having survived prenatal hazards, we as newborns came equipped with automatic reflex responses ideally suited for our survival
Ex. withdrawing our limbs to escape pain, turneing our head from side to side and swiped the cloth off our face
Habituation: decreasing responsiveness with repeated stimulation. As infants gain familiarity with repeated exposure to a stimulus, their interest wanes and they look away sooner.
Maturation: biological growth processes that enable orderly changes in behavior, relatively uninfluenced by experience.
LOQ: During infancy and childhood, how do the brain and motor skills develop?
The developing brain cortex actually overproduces neurons
Peaks at 28 weeks
You have the most amount of brain cells you will ever have when you are born
Rapid development helps explain why infant brain size increases rapidly
Brain’s association areas—those linked with thinking, memory, and language are the last cortical areas to develop.
Physical coordination's is enabled by the developing brain
These skills emerge during infancy
This exercises their maturing muscles and nervous system
Genes guide motor development
Maturation creates our readiness to learn walking at about age 1
We typically do not remember much if anything from before age 4
infantile amnesia wanes as children get older
hippocampus and frontal lobes, continue to mature during and after adolescence
Traces of forgotten childhood languages may also persist
English-speaking British adults who had no conscious memory of the Hindi or Zulu they had spoken as children
They could relearn subtle sound contrasts in these languages that other English speakers could not learn even at 40 years old,
LOQ: From the perspectives of Piaget, Vygotsky, and today’s researchers, how does a child’s mind develop?
Piaget’s studies led him to believe that a child’s mind develops through a series of stages, in an upward march from the newborn’s simple reflexes to the adult’s abstract reasoning power
core idea was that our intellectual progression reflects an unceasing struggle to make sense of our experience
the maturing brain builds schemas to end this process
proposed two more concepts
we assimilate new experiences by interpreting them in terms of our current understandings (schemas)
we accommodate, our schemas to incorporate information provided by new experiences.
Cognition: all the mental activities associated with thinking, knowing, remembering, and communicating.
Schema: a concept or framework that organizes and interprets information.
Assimilation: interpreting our new experiences in terms of our existing schemas.
Accommodation: adapting our current understandings (schemas) to incorporate new information.
believed that children construct their understanding of the world while interacting with it
minds experience spurts of change
cognitive development consisted of four major stages:
sensorimotor
preoperational
concrete operational
formal operational
Babies take in the world through their senses and actions
Happens between birth and age 2
They do this by looking, hearing, touching, mouthing, and grasping
learn to make things happen
Very young babies seem to live in the present:
Out of sight is out of mind.
Young infants lack object permanence
8 months, infants begin exhibiting memory for things no longer seen
infant will momentarily look for a toy that you hid
Sensorimotor Stage: in Piaget’s theory, the stage (from birth to nearly 2 years of age) during which infants know the world mostly in terms of their sensory impressions and motor activities.
Object Permanence: the awareness that things continue to exist even when not perceived.
Piaget believed that until about age 6 or 7, children are in a preoperational stage
able to represent things with words and images but too young to perform mental operations
Ex. such as imagining an action and mentally reversing it
Children lack the concept of conservation
the principle that quantity remains the same despite changes in shape
Symbolic thinking and pretend play appear at an earlier age than Piaget supposed
taught us that preschool children are egocentric
difficulty perceiving things from another’s point of view
Children’s conversations also reveal their egocentrism
develop the ability to infer others’ mental states when they begin forming a theory of mind
Preoperational Stage: in Piaget’s theory, the stage (from about 2 to 6 or 7 years of age) during which a child learns to use language but does not yet comprehend the mental operations of concrete logic.
Conservation: the principle (which Piaget believed to be a part of concrete operational reasoning) that properties such as mass, volume, and number remain the same despite changes in the forms of objects.
Egocentrism: in Piaget’s theory, the preoperational child’s difficulty taking another’s point of view.
Piaget said children enter the concrete operational stage
They begin to grasp conservation when given concrete (physical) materieals
Believed that children become able to comprehend mathematical transformations and conservation
Concrete Operational Stage: in Piaget’s theory, the stage of cognitive development (from about 7 to 11 years of age) during which children gain the mental operations that enable them to think logically about concrete events.
Systematic reasoning, what Piaget called formal operational thinking, is now within their grasp.
our reasoning expands from the purely concrete (involving actual experience) to encompass abstract thinking (involving imagined realities and symbols) by age 12
can ponder hypothetical propositions and deduce consequences
Formal Operational Stage: in Piaget’s theory, the stage of cognitive development (normally beginning about age 12) during which people begin to think logically about abstract concepts.
Vygotsky emphasized how the child’s mind grows through interaction with the social environment vs Piaget who emphasized how the child’s mind grows through interaction with the physical environment
giving children new words and mentoring them provide a temporary scaffold from which children can step to higher levels of thinking
Language provides the building blocks for thinking
age 7, children increasingly think in words and use words to solve problems
Do this by internalizing their culture’s language and relying on inner speech
talking to themselves helps children control their behavior and emotions and master new skills
Scaffold: in Vygotsky’s theory, a framework that offers children temporary support as they develop higher levels of thinking
Piaget identified significant cognitive milestones and stimulated worldwide interest in how the mind develops
emphasis was less on the ages at which children typically reach specific milestones than on their sequence
Studies confirmed that human cognition unfolds basically in the sequence Piaget described
Researchers today see development as more continuous than did Piaget
revealed conceptual abilities Piaget missed
see formal logic as a smaller part of cognition than he did
we adapt Piaget’s ideas to accommodate new findings
Nature’s strategy for keeping children close to protective adults and providing time for learning and socialization
children’s cognitive immaturity as adaptive
LOQ: What is autism spectrum disorder?
Autism spectrum disorder (ASD)
marked by social deficiencies and repetitive behaviors
underlying cause of ASD’s traits seems to be poor communication between brain regions that usually work together to let us understand another’s viewpoint
differing levels of severity
half of people with ASD experience a “fair” or even “good” outcome (also used to be called Asperger's Syndorm)
Function at a high level, highly intelligent, usually also have a very good talent or skill
more severe end struggle to use language.
Mix of biological factors such as genetic influences and abnormal brain development, contribute to ASD
Childhood vaccinations do NOT contribute to ASD
Prenatal environment matters
maternal infection and inflammation, psychiatric drug use, or stress hormones
Diagnosis increasing
Used to think it affected 1 in 2500 children but now it is around 1 in 68 American children by age 8
Rates vary from place to place
Diagnoses offset by a decrease in the number of children with a “cognitive disability” or “learning disability
3:1 ratio for boys to girls who are diagnosed
Simon Baron-Cohen believes this is because boys are often “systemizes”
tend to understand things according to rules or laws, as in mathematical and mechanical systems
Believes that girls are naturally predisposed to be “empathizers”
tend to excel at reading facial expressions and gestures
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD): a disorder that appears in childhood and is marked by significant deficiencies in communication and social interaction, and by rigidly fixated interests and repetitive behaviors.
The brain, mind, and social-emotional behavior develop together
Stranger Anxiety: the fear of strangers that infants commonly display, beginning by about 8 months of age.
of adulthood, a time of rewarding friendships, heightened idealism, and a growing sense of life’s exciting possibilities.
Adolescence: the transition period from childhood to adulthood, extending from puberty to independence.
The timing of puberty is very important
boys, early maturation has mixed effects
Typically stronger and more athletic during their early teen years tend to be more popular, self-assured, and independent, though also more at risk for alcohol use, delinquency, and premature sexual activity
girls, early maturation can be a challenge
may begin associating with older adolescents, suffer teasing or sexual harassment, or experience severe anxiety
The teenage brain is still a work in progress
Until puberty, brain cells increase their connections,
during adolescence comes a selective pruning of unused neurons and connections
Use it or lose it
their frontal lobes also continue to develop
continuing growth of myelin
fatty tissue that forms around axons and speeds neurotransmission enables better communication with other brain regions
improved judgment, impulse control, and long-term planning.
Frontal lobe maturation lags behind the emotional limbic system.
Puberty: the period of sexual maturation, during which a person becomes capable of reproducing.
LOQ: How did Piaget, Kohlberg, and later researchers describe adolescent cognitive and moral development?
During the early teen years, reasoning is often self-focused
They may think about what is ideally possible and compare that with the imperfect reality of their society, their parents, and themselves
may debate human nature, good and evil, truth and justice
sense of what’s fair changes from simple equality to equity
Reasoning hypothetically and deducing consequences also enables adolescents to detect inconsistencies and spot hypocrisy in others’ reasoning.
can lead to heated debates with parents
To be a moral person is to think morally and act accordingly
Jean Piaget and Lawrence Kohlberg proposed that moral reasoning guides moral actions
Newer views suggest much of our functioning occurs not on the “high road” of deliberate, conscious thinking but on the “low road,” unconscious and automatic.
Piaget believed that children’s moral judgments build on their cognitive development
Lawrence Kohlberg agreed and sought to describe the development of moral reasoning, the thinking that occurs as we consider right and wrong
posed moral dilemmas (for example, whether a person should steal medicine to save a loved one’s life) to children
His analysis of their answers led him to propose three basic levels of moral thinking: preconventional, conventional, and postconventional
claimed these levels form a moral ladder
the sequence is unvarying
critics have noted that his postconventional stage is culturally limited,
Jonathan Haidt believes that much of our morality is rooted in moral intuition
quick gut feelings, or affectively laden intuitions
According to this intuitionist view, the mind makes moral judgments in much the same way that it makes aesthetic judgments
Feelings of disgust or of elation trigger moral reasoning,
Our moral thinking and feeling surely affect our moral talk
big part of moral development is the self-discipline needed to restrain one’s own impulses
Our capacity to delay satisfaction now allows for bigger rewards later
Ex. future academic, vocational, and social success
LOQ: What are the social tasks and challenges of adolescence?
Theorist Erik Erikson contended that each stage of life has its own psychosocial task, a crisis that needs resolution
A self-definition that unifies the various selves into a consistent and comfortable is an identify
group identities are often formed by how we differ from those around us
People in a minority ethnic group, for gay and transgender people, or for people with a disability tend to form a social identity around their differences
Erikson noticed that some adolescents forge their identity early
Did this by adopting their parents’ values and expectations
Some teens and young adults may adopt the identity of a particular peer group—jocks, preps, geeks, band kids, debaters.
adolescent identity formation is followed in young adulthood by a developing capacity for intimacy
Identity: our sense of self according to Erikson, the adolescent’s task is to solidify a sense of self by testing and integrating various roles
Social Identity: the “we” aspect of our self-concept; the part of our answer to “Who am I?” that comes from our group memberships.
Intimacy: in Erikson’s theory, the ability to form close, loving relationships; a primary developmental task in young adulthood
LOQ: How do parents and peers influence adolescents?
Adolescents pull away from their parents when forming their own identity
These differences tend to lead to real splits and great stress
Positive parent-teen relations and positive peer relations often go hand in hand
teens who felt close to their parents have tended to be healthy and happy and to do well in school
Misbehaving teens are more likely to have tense relationships with parents and other adults
typically a time of diminishing parental influence and growing peer influence
Peer approval matters
See parents as influential in shaping their religious faith and in thinking about college and career choices
Most teens identify with their parents’ political views
LOQ: What is emerging adulthood?
Adolescents and young adults now take more time to become independent than in the 1960s
This includes financial independence, getting a job, moving out, and relationships
Emerging Adulthood: a period from about age 18 to the mid-twenties, when many in Western cultures are no longer adolescents but have not yet achieved full independence as adults.
Parent-infant attachment bond is a powerful survival impulse that keeps infants close to their caregivers
Their parents are comfortable and familiar
psychologists reasoned that infants became attached to those who satisfied their need for nourishment
Overruled by an accidental finding
Attachment: an emotional tie with another person; shown in young children by their seeking closeness to their caregiver and showing distress on separation.
The Harlow's recognized that this intense attachment to the blanket contradicted the idea that attachment derives from an association with nourishment
This came from a experiment with baby monkeys and their mothers, some with clothes and some without
Researchers earned that other qualities—rocking, warmth, and feeding—made the cloth mother even more appealing.
Infants become attached to parents who are soft and warm and who rock, feed, and pat them
parent-infant emotional communication occurs via touch
Can either be soothing or arousing
Human attachment consists of one person providing another with a secure base from which to explore and a safe haven when distressed.
we are social creatures at all ages
Familiarity bases in attachments in many animals that form during a critical period
Ex. goslings, ducklings, and chicks, shortly after hatching typically see their mother first and then follow her around for everything
Once this bond is created it is very hard to reverse it or get rid or it
Konrad Lorenz explored this attachment process called imprinting
Wondered “what would ducklings do if he was the first moving creature they observed?”
This was true as every duckling that saw Konrad first followed him around everywhere
Children do not imprint, but do become attached to things they know
Mere exposure to people and things increases fondness such as rereading books or rewatching movies
Critical Period: an optimal period early in the life of an organism when exposure to certain stimuli or experiences produces normal development.
Imprinting: the process by which certain animals form strong attachments during early life.
LOQ: How have psychologists studied attachment differences, and what have they learned?
Mary Ainsworth designed the strange situation experiment
observed mother-infant pairs at home during their first six month
Later observed the 1-year-old infants in a strange situation (usually a laboratory playroom) with and without their mother
60 percent of infants and young children display secure attachment has been shown in research
Other infants show insecure attachment, marked either by anxiety or avoidance of trusting relationships
less likely to explore their surroundings; they may even cling to their mother
May cry loudly and remain upset or seem indifferent to her departure and return
Erik and Joan Erikson believed that securely attached children approach life with a sense of basic trust
attributed basic trust not to environment or inborn temperament, but to early parenting
theorized that infants blessed with “sensitive, loving caregivers” form a lifelong attitude of trust rather than fear.
Many researchers now believe that our early attachments form the foundation for our adult relationships and our comfort with affection and intimacy
Children with sensitive, responsive mothers tend to flourish socially and academically
Feeling insecurely attached to others may take one of two main forms
anxious attachment, in which people constantly crave acceptance but remain vigilant to signs of possible rejection
In romantic relationships, an anxious attachment style creates constant concern over rejection, leading people to cling to their partners
avoidant attachment, in which people experience discomfort getting close to others and use avoidant strategies to maintain distance from others.
An avoidant style decreases commitment and increases conflict
Basic Trust: according to Erik Erikson, a sense that the world is predictable and trustworthy; said to be formed during infancy by appropriate experiences with responsive caregivers.
LOQ: How does childhood neglect or abuse affect children’s attachments?
children growing up under adversity are resilient
they withstand the trauma and become well-adjusted adults
hardship short of trauma often boosts mental toughness
tendency to bounce back and go on to lead a better life
many who experience enduring abuse don’t bounce back so readily
can also leave epigenetic marks
explain why young children who have survived severe or prolonged physical abuse
are at increased risk for health problems, psychological disorders, substance abuse, and criminality
Affluent children are at elevated risk for substance abuse, eating disorders, anxiety, and depression
The unloved may become the unloving
Most abusive parents—and many condemned murderers—have reported being neglected or battered as children
Around 30 percent of people who have been abused later abuse their children
Most abused children do not later become violent criminals or abusive parents
extreme early trauma may nevertheless leave footprints on the brain
exhibit stronger startle responses
LOQ: How do children’s self-concepts develop?
By the end of childhood, at about age 12, most children have developed a self-concept
behavior provide clues to the beginnings of self-awareness
By school age, they develop more detailed descriptions that include their gender, group memberships, psychological traits, and similarities and differences compared with other children
views of themselves affect their actions; ex. positive self-concept are more confident, independent, optimistic, assertive, and sociable
Self-Concept: all our thoughts and feelings about ourselves, in answer to the question, “Who am I?”
LOQ: What are the four main parenting styles?
Parenting styles can be described as a combination of two traits:
how responsive
how demanding parents are
Authoritarian parents are coercive. They impose rules and expect obedience: “Don’t interrupt.” “Keep your room clean.” “Don’t stay out late or you’ll be grounded.” “Why? Because I said so.”
Permissive parents are unrestraining. They make few demands, set few limits, and use little punishment.
Negligent parents are uninvolved. They are neither demanding nor responsive. They are careless, inattentive, and do not seek to a close relationship with their children.
Authoritative parents are confrontive. They are both demanding and responsive. They exert control by setting rules, but, especially with older children, they encourage open discussion and allow exceptions.
LOQ: How is adolescence defined, and how do physical changes affect developing teens?
Many psychologists once believed that childhood sets our traits.
developmental psychologists see development as lifelong.
this life-span perspective emerged, psychologists began to look at how maturation and experience shape us not only in infancy and childhood, but also in adolescence and beyond
Adolescence is a time of vitality without the cares
LOQ: What physical changes occur during middle and late adulthood?
Our physical abilities all begin an almost imperceptible decline in our mid-twenties.
During early and middle adulthood, physical vigor has less to do with age than with a person’s health and exercise habits.
Women experience menopause
Menstrual cycles stop usually within a few years of age 50
Some experience distress, as do some men who experience declining virility and physical capacities.
Menopause: the time of natural cessation of menstruation; also refers to the biological changes a woman experiences as her ability to reproduce declines.
Increasing life expectancy combines with decreasing birthrates
Some people say this is humanities greatest achievement
Older adults are a growing population segment
1 in 10 people worldwide are 60 or older
few of us live to 100
Disease, aging, cells stop reproducing, body becomes more frail, and weather and mild infections are more significant
Tips of chromosomes, called telomeres, wear down
This is accelerated by smoking, obesity, or stress
Breast-fed children have longer telomeres
abuse or bullying exhibit the biological scars of shortened telomeres
Telomeres short on when aging cells may die without being replaced with perfect genetic replicas
Not aware of it at the time, but our physical decline begins in early adulthood
Vision gets blurrier, hearing becomes more muffled, and activities take more effort
People start caring less about what their body looks like as they age
Care more about how it functions
As people age there are ups and downs to their health
suffer fewer short-term ailments, such as common flu and cold viruses
body’s disease-fighting immune system weakens
Older people take a bit more time to react, to solve perceptual puzzles, even to remember names, than teens and young adults do
Brain regions important to memory begin to atrophy during aging
blood-brain barrier also breaks down
This starts in the hippocampus
furthers cognitive decline
still some plasticity in the aging brain
Try's to compensate for what it loses by recruiting and reorganizing neural networks
Exercise slows aging
Active older adults tend to be mentally quick older adults
appears to slow the progression of Alzheimer’s disease
enhances muscles, bones, and energy and helps prevent obesity and heart disease
maintains the telomeres that protect the chromosome ends
stimulates brain cell development and neural connections
reduces brain shrinkage in aging brains
promotes neurogenesis in the hippo campus
LOQ: How does memory change with age?
As we age, we remember some things well
display this “reminiscence bump” when asked to name their all-time favorite music, movies, and athletes
tend to name events from their teens or twenties
Teens and young adults surpass both young children and 70-year-olds at prospective memory
older people’s prospective memory remains strong when it triggers a memory
Ex. “Get milk at the store”
remembering seems also to depend on the type of information we are trying to retrieve
Psychologists who study the aging mind debate whether “brain fitness” computer-based training programs
Our brain remains plastic throughout life
some computer game makers have been marketing daily brain-exercise programs for older adults
Cross-Sectional Study: research that compares people of different ages at the same point in time.
Longitudinal Study: research that follows and retests the same people over time.
LOQ: How do neurocognitive disorders and Alzheimer’s disease affect cognitive ability?
Among older adults, hearing loss, and its associated social isolation
predicts risk of depression and accelerated mental decline
Series of small strokes, a brain tumor, or alcohol use disorder can progressively damage the brain
Mental erosion from this is called neurocognitive disorder (NCD, formerly called dementia).
Heavy lifelong smoking also increases the risk for this
Alzheimer’s Disease
loss of brain cells and a deterioration of neurons that produce the neurotransmitter acetylcholine, which is vital to memory and thinking
before symptoms appear—the degeneration of critical brain cells and diminished activity in Alzheimer’s-related brain areas
somewhat less common among those who keep their minds and bodies active, through activities like reading, attending educational lectures, and running or lifting weights
Neurocognitive Disorders (NCDs): acquired (not lifelong) disorders marked by cognitive deficits; often related to Alzheimer’s disease, brain injury or disease, or substance abuse. In older adults, neurocognitive disorders were formerly called dementia.
Alzheimer’s Disease: a neurocognitive disorder marked by neural plaques, often with onset after age 80, and entailing a progressive decline in memory and other cognitive abilities.
LOQ: What themes and influences mark our social journey from early adulthood to death?
Some psychologists have argued that for many the midlife transition is a crisis
Unhappiness, job dissatisfaction, marital dissatisfaction, divorce, anxiety, and suicide do not surge during the early forties
Divorce, for example, is most common among those in their twenties, suicide among those in their seventies and eighties
1 in 4 say the trigger is not age, but a major event, such as illness, divorce, or job loss
Life events trigger transitions to new life stages at varying ages.
The social clock says when to leave home, get a job, marry, have children, and retire
varies from era to era and culture to culture
Social Clock: the culturally preferred timing of social events such as marriage, parenthood, and retirement.
Evolutionary perspective, relatively monogamous pairing makes sense
Parents who cooperated to nurture their children to maturity were more likely to have their genes passed along to posterity than were parents who didn’t.
People who live together before marriage (and especially before engagement) have had higher rates of divorce and marital dysfunction than those who did not
Ninety-five percent of Americans have either married or want to
Stable marriages provide five times more instances of smiling, touching, complimenting, and laughing than of sarcasm, criticism, and insults
Relationships that last are not always devoid of conflict
Some couples fight but also shower each other with affection
Other couples never raise their voices yet also seldom praise each other or nuzzle
Successful couples learn to fight fair
“I know it’s not your fault” or “I’ll just be quiet for a moment and listen.”
Choosing a career path is difficult, especially during bad economic times for both men and women
having work that fits your interests and provides you with a sense of competence and accomplishment
LOQ: How does our well-being change across the life span?
Compared with teens and young adults, older adults do, however, tend to have a smaller social network, with fewer friendships and greater loneliness
older adults are happiest when not alone
experience fewer problems in their relationships—less attachment anxiety, stress, and anger
The aging brain may help nurture these positive feelings
older adults show that the amygdala responds less actively to negative events (but not to positive events)
As we age, life therefore becomes less of an emotional roller coaster.
Compliments provoke less elation and criticisms less despair
LOQ: A loved one’s death triggers what range of reactions?
For many people, the most difficult separation they will experience is the death of a partner
Events like this may trigger a year or more of memory-laden mourning that eventually subsides to a mild depression
Loss is unbearable for some people
Reactions to a loved one’s death range more widely than most suppose
Some cultures encourage public weeping and wailing; others hide grief.
Individuals within the cultures differ
With similar losses, some people grieve more others grieve less
Common misconceptions about grieving
Terminally ill and bereaved people do not go through identical predictable stages, such as denial before anger
Those who express the strongest grief immediately do not get rid of their grief more quickly. But grieving parents who try to protect their partner by “staying strong” and not discussing their child’s death may actually prolong the grieving
Bereavement therapy and self-help groups offer support, but there is similar healing power in the passing of time, the support of friends, and the act of giving support and help to others. Grieving spouses who talk often with others or receive grief counseling adjust about as well as those who grieve more privately