deviation from social norms isnt a reliable definition for abnormality =
if we call a behaviour 'abnormal' and a 'disorder' because it breaks social norms, when the norms change it wont be seen as a disorder.
social norms vary from culture to culture and across time, so is unreliable to define abnormality
some argue it infringes human rights and can be used to support discrimination on grounds of difference =
until 1977 it was US government policy that LGBTQ+ education groups and charities had to publicly state that homosexuality is a "disease, disturbance, or diseased pathology"
homosexuality was considered a mental disorder by the DSM until 1973
Therefore, the use of social norms as a definition for abnormality can or has led to descrimination, so should be used with caution